What do Women Want in a Man

The Six Things That Attract Women

1. Financial security (some women call it MONEY!) - Being a provider to them, buying them things
2. Power - Ability to provide safety for them
3. Fame - Who doesn't want this
4. Looks/Height - If you don't have the looks, height will suffice
5. Personality - Funny, creative, romantic, smart
6. Older age - If you mix no. 6 with no. 1, what you get is a mistress!

FYI, the above are not ranked in priority order. Some women like men for different things. Some prefer financial security, some prefer personality, some just simply height or being older than them. So, it doesn't mean that you MUST HAVE all 6 to attract women.

Most asian girls I asked about what they want in a man, 10 out of 10 would say, the man must be taller and older than them. And of course, being a caring provider is always essential.

Boy, was I wrong...she's a fox!

A female business associate, whom I never met, called me today sounding very very friendly and very very eager to meet me. First thought that crossed my mind, this girl must be ugly and fat!
So confident was I, I took a bet with a colleague of mind that this girl, in worse case scenario, would be fat and ugly! The bet is on!!!

Come 6:30pm at Starbucks, this tall, slim and attractive girl walked into the shop. Quickly she opened her handbag looking for her phone. I was there watching her for a minute or so, then, the thought of "this could not be her" crossed my mind. Taking my chances, as usual, I voiced the name, "Christie?!". Damn, it is her...there goes my $10!

So, a suppose-to-be 1 hours casual meeting ended up being 4 hours. She's 1 hour of business talk, 3 hours of personal talks. As I was playing my cocky and funny role, she ended up sharing almost everything to me. From the recent accident she had to how a woosy her ex boyfriend was. She even opened up her clothes to show me her scars from the accident. Well, she only pulled-up her jeans to show me the scars on her legs. Pitty you...BTW, did I say she's 32?

She just ended a 2 year long relationship 2 months ago, and I bet she must be looking for a rebound. So, as I played along teasing and making jokes about her (I even told her the bet I have with my friend) but she just won't wanna leave, until I said so....after 3 tries!

So I managed to send her to her car and just bout the time I reached my house, she sent me an SMS saying "Nice meeting you today. Hope to see you again soon.".

So far so good I guess...let's see how things would turn out next..my bet is she would SMS me again in next few days..we shall see.

How do you know if a girl is ON to you?

Here are few guides you could follow,

1. She's trying to like the same thing you like: Example, if you're talking about certain types of music that you like, and she tries to give a positive opinion despite that she doesn't really listens to it, then you're scoring man!
2. Body language: E.g, does she crosses her arms? No is good. Does she brushes her hair round her ears? Yes, is good. Does she leans forward to the table when talking to you? Excellent!
3. She laughs at your stupid jokes: Clear sign of attraction
4. She tilts her head when talking/listening to you. You got it going man!
5. Touches you lightly when talking/kidding with you . What can i say more..!

Chris, is good at number 1, 2 and 5.

Finally, I fell in love with her cleavage

Today, I've went out with Chris (a she) for the 4th time, and this time I'm out with her, I can't stop staring at her cleavage. Well, the first time I'm out with her, I can feel that she keeps trying to show off her cleavage to me, by grabbing her jacket's collars away from her middle "exposure" of her breasts. She literally did that at least 4 times, RIGHT IN FRONT of me! Only a 5 year old kid would not noticed what she was doing!

Well, 2nd time, we were having dinner with another friend. Her cleavage was out from the cage again. But it didn't struck as I was sitting beside her. 3rd time was at a nearby club, with 4 other friends. Too dark to see anything..

Now, this time, woohooo..I think i'm in love, with a cleavage. How I wish I could bury my face down that water fall..

I bit more about her, Chris is another business associate of mine where we met at a press event. She's average looking who sometings talks too fast. She has a enterprenuel mind. In fact, she just quit her job to start her own thing, and wanted to start something with me. Should I go or should I stay? If I go, there won't be anymore business to talk about, or worse no more friends..I reckon she's looking for a long-term relationship. But I'm not ready to go long with her...

TIP 4 MEN: How to tell if a woman is ready to get physical?

The single most obvious way to tell if a girl is ready to get physical with you is "Do a Proximity Check". How comfortable is she when you're close to her? Does she always try to draw a distance between you and her, even when you're walking beside her? Or she doesn't mind even to accidentally rub her breasts on you. Some of the things you could try are,

1. When you're having dessert say ice-cream, offer one spoon to feed her. Does she accept your feeding?
2. When you're in the cinema, does her shoulder rub against yours? If yes, ask her if she's feeling ok, by gently touching her hand. Observe her reaction
3. When you're alone with her, try caressing her hair near her ear.
4. When you guys are having fun and talking about jokes, try pitching her nose. How did she react? Did she back-off, or she, in fact, moved forward to let you pitch her.

I once was at a pub drinking with some friends and there was this girl whom is a friend of a friend. We hardly talked when we were at the first pub, since there was a friend sitting between us. But at the 2nd pub, there was a moment that she was kinda standing close to me. So, we began talking....and drinking...and next thing I noticed was she was very close to me. In fact, her face was very near to mine (there was no music at the back since it's almost closing time). The first thought that came to my mind was, "Hey, this girl is ready to get physical". And baaaammm, I went for the kiss and it worked!

From kissing we ended up making out in her car. The car was too small for us to go beyond kissing and petting. She was still pretty much sober, while I was pretty drunk. Anyway, we ended up in bed on the next day, after a romantic dinner over wine.

Met a girl named Vanesse at a club today

I was at a club called The Sanctuary and it was really packed! 9 of us couldn't get any tables. So while I was trying to find a place for us, I noticed this two lovely girls at this little table. So, what's the best excuse to approach these two girls? Ask if we could share the table, of course.

So, there was I trying to chat with them while trying to convince them that I'm just there for the table. Then, my friends found a table enough for 9 and I have no more excuses to stay there.

Later on, I manage to return to their table to offer them some drinks, but they kindly refused. But slowly, I managed to get her number. Sometimes, I have this issue bout myself, where once I managed to get a girl's number, I'd just fly away and leave her alone. I don't think that's right. In fact, I should be building better rapport with her. That way, chances of she wanting to go out with me later would be better.

TIP: After getting a girl's number or email, try hanging around to get to know her and she knows you better.

TIP 4 MEN: Never use the word "Anything" or "Anywhere"

Hi,

Girls tend to prefer the man to lead. So, if she ask where do you want to go for dinner, try not to say Anywhere. She's asking you to make a decision and she does expect you to make one. Girls gets turn off to guys that can't make decisions, as this shows a lack of self confidence.

What you should do is that suggest a few things, like...ask her if she likes Japanese, Chinese, or Western. And if she can choose one, then suggest some nice restaurants that you know of. If she can't choose anything, then i suggest you just go for your feel and choose somewhere generally people in your area would go for a date.

Don't be suprise if after you suggested someplace, she suddenly suggests another. Then, I'd suggest you follow her choice.

I once went out with a girl that actually lets me choose a place, and then asked us to leave the place for another place, after sitting there for few minutes. go figure....