TIP 4 MEN: Take rejections like a man

Hi guys,

Do you remember the last time you got turned-down by a girl for a date? Sucks doesn't it? Then, you'd start wondering why she refused to go out with you, you start questioning yourself and herself......the list of negative thoughts goes on...

Now, the next time you got rejected again, take a deep breath and start thinking, "So What!". There's still plenty of chances I have to get her out, OR there's still plenty of girls out there. As a matter of fact, THERE ARE!

You got to think positive about these rejections. Never show to women that you take these rejections personally. Show to them that their rejections means nothing to you. Just say, "Sure, no problem...next time you're around my place, just give me a buzz". This also shows you're not insecure or being needy. Remember my other rule about never being needy or insecure?

Yup, she SMS me today

She sounded very business-centric, "Sorry, too bz today n forgot to email you our contract. Will email to you tomorrow." Now that SMS came in before even lunch time. Is she on me..? No, she's just being a workaholic? Yes, she couldn't get me off my mind, thus, created a reason to SMS me just to get a reply from me? Did I reply? Hell no!

$10 bucks says she will SMS me again tomorrow, after she emailed me the contract.

What do Women Want in a Man

The Six Things That Attract Women

1. Financial security (some women call it MONEY!) - Being a provider to them, buying them things
2. Power - Ability to provide safety for them
3. Fame - Who doesn't want this
4. Looks/Height - If you don't have the looks, height will suffice
5. Personality - Funny, creative, romantic, smart
6. Older age - If you mix no. 6 with no. 1, what you get is a mistress!

FYI, the above are not ranked in priority order. Some women like men for different things. Some prefer financial security, some prefer personality, some just simply height or being older than them. So, it doesn't mean that you MUST HAVE all 6 to attract women.

Most asian girls I asked about what they want in a man, 10 out of 10 would say, the man must be taller and older than them. And of course, being a caring provider is always essential.

How do you know if a girl is ON to you?

Here are few guides you could follow,

1. She's trying to like the same thing you like: Example, if you're talking about certain types of music that you like, and she tries to give a positive opinion despite that she doesn't really listens to it, then you're scoring man!
2. Body language: E.g, does she crosses her arms? No is good. Does she brushes her hair round her ears? Yes, is good. Does she leans forward to the table when talking to you? Excellent!
3. She laughs at your stupid jokes: Clear sign of attraction
4. She tilts her head when talking/listening to you. You got it going man!
5. Touches you lightly when talking/kidding with you . What can i say more..!

Chris, is good at number 1, 2 and 5.

TIP 4 MEN: How to tell if a woman is ready to get physical?

The single most obvious way to tell if a girl is ready to get physical with you is "Do a Proximity Check". How comfortable is she when you're close to her? Does she always try to draw a distance between you and her, even when you're walking beside her? Or she doesn't mind even to accidentally rub her breasts on you. Some of the things you could try are,

1. When you're having dessert say ice-cream, offer one spoon to feed her. Does she accept your feeding?
2. When you're in the cinema, does her shoulder rub against yours? If yes, ask her if she's feeling ok, by gently touching her hand. Observe her reaction
3. When you're alone with her, try caressing her hair near her ear.
4. When you guys are having fun and talking about jokes, try pitching her nose. How did she react? Did she back-off, or she, in fact, moved forward to let you pitch her.

I once was at a pub drinking with some friends and there was this girl whom is a friend of a friend. We hardly talked when we were at the first pub, since there was a friend sitting between us. But at the 2nd pub, there was a moment that she was kinda standing close to me. So, we began talking....and drinking...and next thing I noticed was she was very close to me. In fact, her face was very near to mine (there was no music at the back since it's almost closing time). The first thought that came to my mind was, "Hey, this girl is ready to get physical". And baaaammm, I went for the kiss and it worked!

From kissing we ended up making out in her car. The car was too small for us to go beyond kissing and petting. She was still pretty much sober, while I was pretty drunk. Anyway, we ended up in bed on the next day, after a romantic dinner over wine.

TIP 4 MEN: Never use the word "Anything" or "Anywhere"

Hi,

Girls tend to prefer the man to lead. So, if she ask where do you want to go for dinner, try not to say Anywhere. She's asking you to make a decision and she does expect you to make one. Girls gets turn off to guys that can't make decisions, as this shows a lack of self confidence.

What you should do is that suggest a few things, like...ask her if she likes Japanese, Chinese, or Western. And if she can choose one, then suggest some nice restaurants that you know of. If she can't choose anything, then i suggest you just go for your feel and choose somewhere generally people in your area would go for a date.

Don't be suprise if after you suggested someplace, she suddenly suggests another. Then, I'd suggest you follow her choice.

I once went out with a girl that actually lets me choose a place, and then asked us to leave the place for another place, after sitting there for few minutes. go figure....

TIP 4 MEN: Never go Dutch with an Asian girl

Never EVER go DUTCH with an Asian Girl! At least not on 1st date! Even if she insisted on paying. If she insisted, just tell her next time you pay. Then u got a chance to go out for another date with her Never forget this rule.

Asian girls tend to expect guys to be more financially stable than her and do gets very attracted to financially stable guys. Not that they are money-face, (some are), but it's more of a matter of security.

Don't think of them as money-centric, as most Asian guys tend to think that way. I found out the truth the hard-way. But, once you get to know them...or being a couple with them, some do try to share the financial load. Some don't...especially the pretty ones. So....u gotta learn to discern...

Try to be more generous with the girl you're dating. If you're trying to be stingy, she'll start telling her frens that you're a stingy person. Later, once you guys broke-up, don't be suprise that your stinginess is one of the factor she dumps you....

Two of my friends actually broke-up with their boyfriends over reason that the guys were cheap. So, try not to be a cheapskate, ok. If you're not willing to pay, then don't date. Period. It's sad but it's true. Anyway, you gotta put in some investments, to get the girl that you want, right?

TIP 4 MEN: Never Show Neediness & Your Insecurity

Insecurity And Neediness Are Your Two Worst Enemies.

If you called a girl and she didn't pick-up, never SMS her asking her why she didn't pick-up your call. Or worse, next time you call her and she picked-up, you asked her why she didn't pick-up your last call. Yeah yeah, you may say you were worried about her. But, if you're not interested with her, would you do that?

Women hates that! Nothing scares a woman off faster than a guy who ‘leans’… physically or emotionally.

Or, you trying to hard to impress her or to get her attention - That's Insecurity

Being too sticky is also a clear case of insecurity.

If you tend to be that sort of person, their getting rid of those negative traits by building your self-confidence.

So, the next time you think you're being needy or insecure, STOP! And think about what you just did. Then, slowly do the opposite.

How to start your dating adventure?

Anyone that wants to learn more about how to date or be successful with dating women, you gotta read this article below.

http://www.askmen.com/dating/datingadvice/index.html

Mostly written by the Dating Guru - David DeAngelo. This guy means business...i have a set of DVD about a seminar he conducted in the U.S. He's the real deal.

If you wanna be happy and successful with your love of your life, please read and TRY to apply...