Showing posts with label approaching women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label approaching women. Show all posts

Sunday, February 24, 2008

How to approaching an attractive and ignorant girl at the mall

Sometimes, if you go to a mall, you'd notice some really gorgeous girls around and it just breaks your heart that you couldn't get the nerve or the right excuse to approach her. Now, if you've read through all my tips and guides and manage to get the nerve to walk-up to them, try this,

  • Scenario 1: Walk-up to her and say Hi. Is she stopped, ask if you could someday buy her coffee over your favourite coffee shop. If she declined (well most hot chicks will), then say "What? You worry that you might fall in love with me?" Then, she'd say to herself, "What the hell?" Later, she might say, "I don't think so". Then reply, "Well, if that's the case, then it's mutual. I just missed my favourite coffee so much and I thought maybe you'd like to take a sip with me". Remember to disengage before she does, by saying something like, "Oh look at the time, I really have to go now...so can I call you for that coffee?". That's it...
  • Scenario 2: Walk-up to her and say Hi. But she ignored you and kept walking. Then, say "Why? Did my good looks really scare you? (Only works if you're not that good looking). This should stop her. Then, play along say you just wanna be stricly friends, nothing more. And make sure you end the conversation first. Before you end, get her contacts.

Best practice is don't take the literature above LITERALLY. It's just a guide or an idea on what you could do. Practice it and use your own style to do it.

Friday, December 7, 2007

Met a girl named Vanesse at a club today

I was at a club called The Sanctuary and it was really packed! 9 of us couldn't get any tables. So while I was trying to find a place for us, I noticed this two lovely girls at this little table. So, what's the best excuse to approach these two girls? Ask if we could share the table, of course.

So, there was I trying to chat with them while trying to convince them that I'm just there for the table. Then, my friends found a table enough for 9 and I have no more excuses to stay there.

Later on, I manage to return to their table to offer them some drinks, but they kindly refused. But slowly, I managed to get her number. Sometimes, I have this issue bout myself, where once I managed to get a girl's number, I'd just fly away and leave her alone. I don't think that's right. In fact, I should be building better rapport with her. That way, chances of she wanting to go out with me later would be better.

TIP: After getting a girl's number or email, try hanging around to get to know her and she knows you better.