TIP 4 MEN: Never use the word "Anything" or "Anywhere"

Hi,

Girls tend to prefer the man to lead. So, if she ask where do you want to go for dinner, try not to say Anywhere. She's asking you to make a decision and she does expect you to make one. Girls gets turn off to guys that can't make decisions, as this shows a lack of self confidence.

What you should do is that suggest a few things, like...ask her if she likes Japanese, Chinese, or Western. And if she can choose one, then suggest some nice restaurants that you know of. If she can't choose anything, then i suggest you just go for your feel and choose somewhere generally people in your area would go for a date.

Don't be suprise if after you suggested someplace, she suddenly suggests another. Then, I'd suggest you follow her choice.

I once went out with a girl that actually lets me choose a place, and then asked us to leave the place for another place, after sitting there for few minutes. go figure....

TIP 4 MEN: Never go Dutch with an Asian girl

Never EVER go DUTCH with an Asian Girl! At least not on 1st date! Even if she insisted on paying. If she insisted, just tell her next time you pay. Then u got a chance to go out for another date with her Never forget this rule.

Asian girls tend to expect guys to be more financially stable than her and do gets very attracted to financially stable guys. Not that they are money-face, (some are), but it's more of a matter of security.

Don't think of them as money-centric, as most Asian guys tend to think that way. I found out the truth the hard-way. But, once you get to know them...or being a couple with them, some do try to share the financial load. Some don't...especially the pretty ones. So....u gotta learn to discern...

Try to be more generous with the girl you're dating. If you're trying to be stingy, she'll start telling her frens that you're a stingy person. Later, once you guys broke-up, don't be suprise that your stinginess is one of the factor she dumps you....

Two of my friends actually broke-up with their boyfriends over reason that the guys were cheap. So, try not to be a cheapskate, ok. If you're not willing to pay, then don't date. Period. It's sad but it's true. Anyway, you gotta put in some investments, to get the girl that you want, right?

TIP 4 MEN: Never Show Neediness & Your Insecurity

Insecurity And Neediness Are Your Two Worst Enemies.

If you called a girl and she didn't pick-up, never SMS her asking her why she didn't pick-up your call. Or worse, next time you call her and she picked-up, you asked her why she didn't pick-up your last call. Yeah yeah, you may say you were worried about her. But, if you're not interested with her, would you do that?

Women hates that! Nothing scares a woman off faster than a guy who ‘leans’… physically or emotionally.

Or, you trying to hard to impress her or to get her attention - That's Insecurity

Being too sticky is also a clear case of insecurity.

If you tend to be that sort of person, their getting rid of those negative traits by building your self-confidence.

So, the next time you think you're being needy or insecure, STOP! And think about what you just did. Then, slowly do the opposite.