Alright, it's Saturday and yes, she texted me still, just to tell me she just emailed me the contract draft. This is the first time that a business associate would text me so many times over a simple contract draft. She could just email it to me and save the $$$ on her phone bills. So, I replied her with a simple thank you. I have to reply once a while, right? You should to, if this is your situation.
I'm just playing to my rule - Never shit at where you eat! A famous Chinese proverb, and a very true one too! Meaning, don't mix business with pleasure. Well, at least, try not to! For my case, I'm not interested with her since she's 3 years my senoir.
Remember, don't go overboard, if you feel the business is more important than the relationship that you could strike with her.
Sunday, January 27, 2008
There she goes, there she goes again...texting me again...
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Yup, she SMS me today
She sounded very business-centric, "Sorry, too bz today n forgot to email you our contract. Will email to you tomorrow." Now that SMS came in before even lunch time. Is she on me..? No, she's just being a workaholic? Yes, she couldn't get me off my mind, thus, created a reason to SMS me just to get a reply from me? Did I reply? Hell no!
$10 bucks says she will SMS me again tomorrow, after she emailed me the contract.
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Boy, was I wrong...she's a fox!
A female business associate, whom I never met, called me today sounding very very friendly and very very eager to meet me. First thought that crossed my mind, this girl must be ugly and fat!
So confident was I, I took a bet with a colleague of mind that this girl, in worse case scenario, would be fat and ugly! The bet is on!!!
Come 6:30pm at Starbucks, this tall, slim and attractive girl walked into the shop. Quickly she opened her handbag looking for her phone. I was there watching her for a minute or so, then, the thought of "this could not be her" crossed my mind. Taking my chances, as usual, I voiced the name, "Christie?!". Damn, it is her...there goes my $10!
So, a suppose-to-be 1 hours casual meeting ended up being 4 hours. She's 1 hour of business talk, 3 hours of personal talks. As I was playing my cocky and funny role, she ended up sharing almost everything to me. From the recent accident she had to how a woosy her ex boyfriend was. She even opened up her clothes to show me her scars from the accident. Well, she only pulled-up her jeans to show me the scars on her legs. Pitty you...BTW, did I say she's 32?
She just ended a 2 year long relationship 2 months ago, and I bet she must be looking for a rebound. So, as I played along teasing and making jokes about her (I even told her the bet I have with my friend) but she just won't wanna leave, until I said so....after 3 tries!
So I managed to send her to her car and just bout the time I reached my house, she sent me an SMS saying "Nice meeting you today. Hope to see you again soon.".
So far so good I guess...let's see how things would turn out next..my bet is she would SMS me again in next few days..we shall see.
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Met a girl named Vanesse at a club today
I was at a club called The Sanctuary and it was really packed! 9 of us couldn't get any tables. So while I was trying to find a place for us, I noticed this two lovely girls at this little table. So, what's the best excuse to approach these two girls? Ask if we could share the table, of course.
So, there was I trying to chat with them while trying to convince them that I'm just there for the table. Then, my friends found a table enough for 9 and I have no more excuses to stay there.
Later on, I manage to return to their table to offer them some drinks, but they kindly refused. But slowly, I managed to get her number. Sometimes, I have this issue bout myself, where once I managed to get a girl's number, I'd just fly away and leave her alone. I don't think that's right. In fact, I should be building better rapport with her. That way, chances of she wanting to go out with me later would be better.
TIP: After getting a girl's number or email, try hanging around to get to know her and she knows you better.
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