Saturday, December 29, 2007

TIP 4 MEN: How to tell if a woman is ready to get physical?

The single most obvious way to tell if a girl is ready to get physical with you is "Do a Proximity Check". How comfortable is she when you're close to her? Does she always try to draw a distance between you and her, even when you're walking beside her? Or she doesn't mind even to accidentally rub her breasts on you. Some of the things you could try are,

  1. When you're having dessert say ice-cream, offer one spoon to feed her. Does she accept your feeding?
  2. When you're in the cinema, does her shoulder rub against yours? If yes, ask her if she's feeling ok, by gently touching her hand. Observe her reaction
  3. When you're alone with her, try caressing her hair near her ear.
  4. When you guys are having fun and talking about jokes, try pitching her nose. How did she react? Did she back-off, or she, in fact, moved forward to let you pitch her.

I once was at a pub drinking with some friends and there was this girl whom is a friend of a friend. We hardly talked when we were at the first pub, since there was a friend sitting between us. But at the 2nd pub, there was a moment that she was kinda standing close to me. So, we began talking....and drinking...and next thing I noticed was she was very close to me. In fact, her face was very near to mine (there was no music at the back since it's almost closing time). The first thought that came to my mind was, "Hey, this girl is ready to get physical". And baaaammm, I went for the kiss and it worked!

From kissing we ended up making out in her car. The car was too small for us to go beyond kissing and petting. She was still pretty much sober, while I was pretty drunk. Anyway, we ended up in bed on the next day, after a romantic dinner over wine.

Friday, December 7, 2007

Met a girl named Vanesse at a club today

I was at a club called The Sanctuary and it was really packed! 9 of us couldn't get any tables. So while I was trying to find a place for us, I noticed this two lovely girls at this little table. So, what's the best excuse to approach these two girls? Ask if we could share the table, of course.

So, there was I trying to chat with them while trying to convince them that I'm just there for the table. Then, my friends found a table enough for 9 and I have no more excuses to stay there.

Later on, I manage to return to their table to offer them some drinks, but they kindly refused. But slowly, I managed to get her number. Sometimes, I have this issue bout myself, where once I managed to get a girl's number, I'd just fly away and leave her alone. I don't think that's right. In fact, I should be building better rapport with her. That way, chances of she wanting to go out with me later would be better.

TIP: After getting a girl's number or email, try hanging around to get to know her and she knows you better.

Sunday, December 2, 2007

TIP 4 MEN: Never use the word "Anything" or "Anywhere"

Hi,

Girls tend to prefer the man to lead. So, if she ask where do you want to go for dinner, try not to say Anywhere. She's asking you to make a decision and she does expect you to make one. Girls gets turn off to guys that can't make decisions, as this shows a lack of self confidence.

What you should do is that suggest a few things, like...ask her if she likes Japanese, Chinese, or Western. And if she can choose one, then suggest some nice restaurants that you know of. If she can't choose anything, then i suggest you just go for your feel and choose somewhere generally people in your area would go for a date.

Don't be suprise if after you suggested someplace, she suddenly suggests another. Then, I'd suggest you follow her choice.

I once went out with a girl that actually lets me choose a place, and then asked us to leave the place for another place, after sitting there for few minutes. go figure....