Friday, November 30, 2007

TIP 4 MEN: Never go Dutch with an Asian girl

Never EVER go DUTCH with an Asian Girl! At least not on 1st date! Even if she insisted on paying. If she insisted, just tell her next time you pay. Then u got a chance to go out for another date with her Never forget this rule.

Asian girls tend to expect guys to be more financially stable than her and do gets very attracted to financially stable guys. Not that they are money-face, (some are), but it's more of a matter of security.

Don't think of them as money-centric, as most Asian guys tend to think that way. I found out the truth the hard-way. But, once you get to know them...or being a couple with them, some do try to share the financial load. Some don't...especially the pretty ones. So....u gotta learn to discern...

Try to be more generous with the girl you're dating. If you're trying to be stingy, she'll start telling her frens that you're a stingy person. Later, once you guys broke-up, don't be suprise that your stinginess is one of the factor she dumps you....

Two of my friends actually broke-up with their boyfriends over reason that the guys were cheap. So, try not to be a cheapskate, ok. If you're not willing to pay, then don't date. Period. It's sad but it's true. Anyway, you gotta put in some investments, to get the girl that you want, right?

Monday, July 30, 2007

TIP 4 MEN: Never Show Neediness & Your Insecurity

Insecurity And Neediness Are Your Two Worst Enemies.

If you called a girl and she didn't pick-up, never SMS her asking her why she didn't pick-up your call. Or worse, next time you call her and she picked-up, you asked her why she didn't pick-up your last call. Yeah yeah, you may say you were worried about her. But, if you're not interested with her, would you do that?

Women hates that! Nothing scares a woman off faster than a guy who ‘leans’… physically or emotionally.

Or, you trying to hard to impress her or to get her attention - That's Insecurity

Being too sticky is also a clear case of insecurity.

If you tend to be that sort of person, their getting rid of those negative traits by building your self-confidence.

So, the next time you think you're being needy or insecure, STOP! And think about what you just did. Then, slowly do the opposite.

Saturday, July 7, 2007

TIPS 4 WOMEN: What do you do if you fall for a guy

Hi,

Well, in today's 21st century, TELL HIM of course! But....it's how you tell him that's important. As a guy, I find it nice to know that some likes me and I sincerely do respect girls that directly tell me that they have feelings for me...But, not all guys are like that. You may show them a sign of neediness or desperation. So, this is what i think girls can do,

-Show signs to him that you're attracted to him. Like laugh at his silly jokes, sms him some nice cute text messages once in a while. Not everyday ok?!
-If you want to communicate with him, NEVER ask for his number. Instead, find ways to give him your number
-If you need help, ask him to help. See how's his response.
-Find chance to go on a one-to-one date with him. E.g: Hey, since you're my only fren that likes My Chemical Romance, there's this concert going on in town. I'm looking for someone to go with. You wanna go?

Once you've tried, tell me about it

Melv.

Thursday, February 1, 2007

How to start your dating adventure?

Anyone that wants to learn more about how to date or be successful with dating women, you gotta read this article below.

http://www.askmen.com/dating/datingadvice/index.html

Mostly written by the Dating Guru - David DeAngelo. This guy means business...i have a set of DVD about a seminar he conducted in the U.S. He's the real deal.

If you wanna be happy and successful with your love of your life, please read and TRY to apply...