Sunday, February 24, 2008

TIP 4 MEN: How to get pretty online girls to reply to you

Ok, let's face it, pretty girls get tonnes (I mean tonnes) of emails or messages from dating or social networking sites. And most of them would sound like, "Hi, you're so pretty, and I really wish to get to know you better. I'm this...this..this...my number is this...keep in touch".

She'd go, BORING, BORING, DELETE!

Now, why don't you try, "Hey, are you sure that photo is you? I don't think so. What, did you go to the photo studios and get one of those artificial shots done with some PhotoShop effects on? Do you have a real picture? Ok, stop trying to fool all of us guys, and let's see what you REALLY look like..."

Chances are, she'll be saying to herself, "I'll show him", and she's going to send you a bunch of pictures and say, "No, really, this is me!". Then you'd have started the ball rolling....

How to approaching an attractive and ignorant girl at the mall

Sometimes, if you go to a mall, you'd notice some really gorgeous girls around and it just breaks your heart that you couldn't get the nerve or the right excuse to approach her. Now, if you've read through all my tips and guides and manage to get the nerve to walk-up to them, try this,

  • Scenario 1: Walk-up to her and say Hi. Is she stopped, ask if you could someday buy her coffee over your favourite coffee shop. If she declined (well most hot chicks will), then say "What? You worry that you might fall in love with me?" Then, she'd say to herself, "What the hell?" Later, she might say, "I don't think so". Then reply, "Well, if that's the case, then it's mutual. I just missed my favourite coffee so much and I thought maybe you'd like to take a sip with me". Remember to disengage before she does, by saying something like, "Oh look at the time, I really have to go now...so can I call you for that coffee?". That's it...
  • Scenario 2: Walk-up to her and say Hi. But she ignored you and kept walking. Then, say "Why? Did my good looks really scare you? (Only works if you're not that good looking). This should stop her. Then, play along say you just wanna be stricly friends, nothing more. And make sure you end the conversation first. Before you end, get her contacts.

Best practice is don't take the literature above LITERALLY. It's just a guide or an idea on what you could do. Practice it and use your own style to do it.

Pickup Lines: At the bars or clubs

Making fun of girl's outfits

  • If a girl is wearing a dress that too revealing, like one of those dress that's just a strap at the back, walk up to her and say, "Ya know, when someone wears that kind of thing, it can only mean one thing. It means you can't afford an entire dress shirt, and you were just hoping no one would notice since it's dark in here". Then she might get a little pissed off, but then you should further bombard her with tease lines like, "Why? Can't take a joke? (smiling). Well, at least you can afford to put on some nice makeup. Later she might laugh an say, "What, you don't like my dress?" and kind of pouted. So you say, "It's not bad, but it'd look even better on the floor of my bedroom."

How to use jealousy as an attraction tool

Jealousy is a very interesting emotion. Generally speaking, if a girl likes you and knows that you're seeing other girl, it will make you more attractive. Use jealousy to check if the other girl likes you. But you have to be careful as it could backfire. Cos jealousy can drive people crazy... If you make the wrong person jealous, they can turn into a stalker...

Cocky & Funny Lines: If She Asks If You're Single

"Well, I suppose I have room for one more girlfriend. Why, you're interested?"

or,

"Why, you wanna get married with me already?"

Cocky & Funny Lines: Meeting Girls At The Movies, Events, Seminars, Classes

How bout this one? If you're at the cinema or somewhere where you're sitting in rows of seats like seminar, events, lecture hall, and if a girl come to you and asks if the seat next to you is available, say something like,

"Sorry, you can't sit on my lap, but this seat next to me is empty"

TIP 4 MEN: How to get girls to notice you

Let's face it, human likes to get noticed. Even men and especially with hot chicks! Brother, don't you want that hot girl to notice you?

Here are some tips you can do to get women to turn their heads on you.

  1. Learn How To Hold Eye Contact Longer than Her
    If you see a woman that you find attractive, and she looks back at you, DON'T LOOK AWAY. Most guys become very self conscious and lookaway as soon as a woman notices them looking. This is a HUGE mistake. If you want to communicate all the rightthings, you need to show IMMEDIATELY that you'renot afraid, and that you're not at all self-conscious about the fact that you are checking herout. A good practice is to walk through a mall for a few hours and look DIRECTLY at woman you see. Walk into every store, and look directly into the eyes of every single woman you encounter...and DON'T LOOK AWAY UNTIL AFTER SHE DOES. Don't try to smile or be too near (arm's length) to them, cos they might think you're a stalker....This is very important. Remember to practice, practice and practice.
  2. Use Confident Body Language & Posture
    Simple. when you walk, suck in your stomach, hold your head up (not too high up) and back, pull your shoulders back, arch your back...something like having an invisible string tight to your head and hanging you from the ceiling.
  3. Move Slower and Use Slower Gestures
    If you remember how James Bond acts, you know what I mean. He's so cooolll, or in other words, he NEVER acts and behaves nervously. And girls are sucker for that. Think about it in the opposite way. Have you seen women that acts this way? Don't you find them very attractive? Same goes to men.
  4. Be Confident in Your Speech
    Don't speak too fast, too soft or squeaky. Learn to speak with more confident, such as slower, clearer with a more bass on your voice. Pause a little when you want to emphasize something. Change the tone a little too. Don't speak with a monotonous tone. The best way to learn this is to relax.

Always remember to practice the above whenever you have the chance. It might take a while to master them, but the rewards will be noticable.