There she goes, there she goes again...texting me again...

Alright, it's Saturday and yes, she texted me still, just to tell me she just emailed me the contract draft. This is the first time that a business associate would text me so many times over a simple contract draft. She could just email it to me and save the $$$ on her phone bills. So, I replied her with a simple thank you. I have to reply once a while, right? You should to, if this is your situation.

I'm just playing to my rule - Never shit at where you eat! A famous Chinese proverb, and a very true one too! Meaning, don't mix business with pleasure. Well, at least, try not to! For my case, I'm not interested with her since she's 3 years my senoir.

Remember, don't go overboard, if you feel the business is more important than the relationship that you could strike with her.

TIP 4 MEN: Take rejections like a man

Hi guys,

Do you remember the last time you got turned-down by a girl for a date? Sucks doesn't it? Then, you'd start wondering why she refused to go out with you, you start questioning yourself and herself......the list of negative thoughts goes on...

Now, the next time you got rejected again, take a deep breath and start thinking, "So What!". There's still plenty of chances I have to get her out, OR there's still plenty of girls out there. As a matter of fact, THERE ARE!

You got to think positive about these rejections. Never show to women that you take these rejections personally. Show to them that their rejections means nothing to you. Just say, "Sure, no problem...next time you're around my place, just give me a buzz". This also shows you're not insecure or being needy. Remember my other rule about never being needy or insecure?

Yup, she SMS me today

She sounded very business-centric, "Sorry, too bz today n forgot to email you our contract. Will email to you tomorrow." Now that SMS came in before even lunch time. Is she on me..? No, she's just being a workaholic? Yes, she couldn't get me off my mind, thus, created a reason to SMS me just to get a reply from me? Did I reply? Hell no!

$10 bucks says she will SMS me again tomorrow, after she emailed me the contract.

What do Women Want in a Man

The Six Things That Attract Women

1. Financial security (some women call it MONEY!) - Being a provider to them, buying them things
2. Power - Ability to provide safety for them
3. Fame - Who doesn't want this
4. Looks/Height - If you don't have the looks, height will suffice
5. Personality - Funny, creative, romantic, smart
6. Older age - If you mix no. 6 with no. 1, what you get is a mistress!

FYI, the above are not ranked in priority order. Some women like men for different things. Some prefer financial security, some prefer personality, some just simply height or being older than them. So, it doesn't mean that you MUST HAVE all 6 to attract women.

Most asian girls I asked about what they want in a man, 10 out of 10 would say, the man must be taller and older than them. And of course, being a caring provider is always essential.

Boy, was I wrong...she's a fox!

A female business associate, whom I never met, called me today sounding very very friendly and very very eager to meet me. First thought that crossed my mind, this girl must be ugly and fat!
So confident was I, I took a bet with a colleague of mind that this girl, in worse case scenario, would be fat and ugly! The bet is on!!!

Come 6:30pm at Starbucks, this tall, slim and attractive girl walked into the shop. Quickly she opened her handbag looking for her phone. I was there watching her for a minute or so, then, the thought of "this could not be her" crossed my mind. Taking my chances, as usual, I voiced the name, "Christie?!". Damn, it is her...there goes my $10!

So, a suppose-to-be 1 hours casual meeting ended up being 4 hours. She's 1 hour of business talk, 3 hours of personal talks. As I was playing my cocky and funny role, she ended up sharing almost everything to me. From the recent accident she had to how a woosy her ex boyfriend was. She even opened up her clothes to show me her scars from the accident. Well, she only pulled-up her jeans to show me the scars on her legs. Pitty you...BTW, did I say she's 32?

She just ended a 2 year long relationship 2 months ago, and I bet she must be looking for a rebound. So, as I played along teasing and making jokes about her (I even told her the bet I have with my friend) but she just won't wanna leave, until I said so....after 3 tries!

So I managed to send her to her car and just bout the time I reached my house, she sent me an SMS saying "Nice meeting you today. Hope to see you again soon.".

So far so good I guess...let's see how things would turn out next..my bet is she would SMS me again in next few days..we shall see.

How do you know if a girl is ON to you?

Here are few guides you could follow,

1. She's trying to like the same thing you like: Example, if you're talking about certain types of music that you like, and she tries to give a positive opinion despite that she doesn't really listens to it, then you're scoring man!
2. Body language: E.g, does she crosses her arms? No is good. Does she brushes her hair round her ears? Yes, is good. Does she leans forward to the table when talking to you? Excellent!
3. She laughs at your stupid jokes: Clear sign of attraction
4. She tilts her head when talking/listening to you. You got it going man!
5. Touches you lightly when talking/kidding with you . What can i say more..!

Chris, is good at number 1, 2 and 5.

Finally, I fell in love with her cleavage

Today, I've went out with Chris (a she) for the 4th time, and this time I'm out with her, I can't stop staring at her cleavage. Well, the first time I'm out with her, I can feel that she keeps trying to show off her cleavage to me, by grabbing her jacket's collars away from her middle "exposure" of her breasts. She literally did that at least 4 times, RIGHT IN FRONT of me! Only a 5 year old kid would not noticed what she was doing!

Well, 2nd time, we were having dinner with another friend. Her cleavage was out from the cage again. But it didn't struck as I was sitting beside her. 3rd time was at a nearby club, with 4 other friends. Too dark to see anything..

Now, this time, woohooo..I think i'm in love, with a cleavage. How I wish I could bury my face down that water fall..

I bit more about her, Chris is another business associate of mine where we met at a press event. She's average looking who sometings talks too fast. She has a enterprenuel mind. In fact, she just quit her job to start her own thing, and wanted to start something with me. Should I go or should I stay? If I go, there won't be anymore business to talk about, or worse no more friends..I reckon she's looking for a long-term relationship. But I'm not ready to go long with her...